$user_im_prefs->user_id = $cur->id;
if ($user_im_prefs->find() && $user_im_prefs->fetch()) {
if($user_im_prefs->screenname == $confirm->address){
$user_im_prefs->user_id = $cur->id;
if ($user_im_prefs->find() && $user_im_prefs->fetch()) {
if($user_im_prefs->screenname == $confirm->address){