$expiry = $contact['term-date'] . ' + 32 days ';
if(datetime_convert() > datetime_convert('UTC','UTC',$expiry)) {
// relationship is really truly dead.
$expiry = $contact['term-date'] . ' + 32 days ';
if(datetime_convert() > datetime_convert('UTC','UTC',$expiry)) {
// relationship is really truly dead.