// The other person will have been issued an ID when they first requested friendship.
// Locate their record. At this time, their record will have both pending and blocked set to 1.
// There won't be any dfrn_id if this is a network follower, so use the contact_id instead.
// The other person will have been issued an ID when they first requested friendship.
// Locate their record. At this time, their record will have both pending and blocked set to 1.
// There won't be any dfrn_id if this is a network follower, so use the contact_id instead.