+ // Setting "pending" to true on a bidirectional contact request could create a problem when it isn't accepted on the other side
+ // Then we have got a situation where - although one direction is accepted - the contact still appears as pending.
+ // Possibly we need two different "pending" fields, one for incoming, one for outgoing?
+ // This has to be thought over, but for now this here is a better solution.
+ // $pending = $duplex;
+ $pending = false;