$r = q("SELECT `contact`.*, `user`.`username`, `user`.`nickname`
FROM `contact` LEFT JOIN `user` ON `contact`.`uid` = `user`.`uid`
WHERE `contact`.`blocked` = 0 AND `contact`.`pending` = 0
AND `user`.`nickname` = '%s' $sql_extra LIMIT 1",
$r = q("SELECT `contact`.*, `user`.`username`, `user`.`nickname`
FROM `contact` LEFT JOIN `user` ON `contact`.`uid` = `user`.`uid`
WHERE `contact`.`blocked` = 0 AND `contact`.`pending` = 0
AND `user`.`nickname` = '%s' $sql_extra LIMIT 1",