'$howlong' => array('howlong', t('Since [date]:'), ($r[0]['howlong'] === '0000-00-00 00:00:00' ? '' : datetime_convert('UTC',date_default_timezone_get(),$r[0]['howlong']))),
'$sexual' => sexpref_selector($r[0]['sexual']),
'$about' => array('about', t('Tell us about yourself...'), $r[0]['about']),
'$howlong' => array('howlong', t('Since [date]:'), ($r[0]['howlong'] === '0000-00-00 00:00:00' ? '' : datetime_convert('UTC',date_default_timezone_get(),$r[0]['howlong']))),
'$sexual' => sexpref_selector($r[0]['sexual']),
'$about' => array('about', t('Tell us about yourself...'), $r[0]['about']),