$r = q("SELECT `contact`.*, `user`.`nickname` FROM `contact` LEFT JOIN `user` ON `contact`.`uid` = `user`.`uid`
WHERE `contact`.`self` = 1 AND `contact`.`uid` = %d LIMIT 1",
$r = q("SELECT `contact`.*, `user`.`nickname` FROM `contact` LEFT JOIN `user` ON `contact`.`uid` = `user`.`uid`
WHERE `contact`.`self` = 1 AND `contact`.`uid` = %d LIMIT 1",