$condition = ["`uid` = ? AND (`rel` = ? OR `rel` = ?) AND (`nurl` = ? OR `alias` = ? OR `alias` = ?)",
$uid, Contact::SHARING, Contact::FRIEND, Strings::normaliseLink($url),
$condition = ["`uid` = ? AND (`rel` = ? OR `rel` = ?) AND (`nurl` = ? OR `alias` = ? OR `alias` = ?)",
$uid, Contact::SHARING, Contact::FRIEND, Strings::normaliseLink($url),