$r = q("SELECT `user`.*, `contact`.`id` FROM `user` LEFT JOIN `contact` on `user`.`uid` = `contact`.`uid` WHERE `user`.`nickname` = '%s' AND `user`.`blocked` = 0 and `contact`.`self` = 1 LIMIT 1",
DBA::escape($nick)
);
$r = q("SELECT `user`.*, `contact`.`id` FROM `user` LEFT JOIN `contact` on `user`.`uid` = `contact`.`uid` WHERE `user`.`nickname` = '%s' AND `user`.`blocked` = 0 and `contact`.`self` = 1 LIMIT 1",
DBA::escape($nick)
);