AND `contact`.`network`= 'dfrn' AND (`contact`.`forum` OR `contact`.`prv`)
AND NOT `contact`.`blocked` AND NOT `contact`.`hidden`
AND NOT `contact`.`pending` AND NOT `contact`.`archive`
AND `contact`.`network`= 'dfrn' AND (`contact`.`forum` OR `contact`.`prv`)
AND NOT `contact`.`blocked` AND NOT `contact`.`hidden`
AND NOT `contact`.`pending` AND NOT `contact`.`archive`