$users = q("SELECT `uid` FROM `contact` WHERE self AND (`url` = '%s' OR `nurl` = '%s')", $link, $link);
foreach ($users AS $user) {
if ($user['uid'] == $message['uid']) {
$users = q("SELECT `uid` FROM `contact` WHERE self AND (`url` = '%s' OR `nurl` = '%s')", $link, $link);
foreach ($users AS $user) {
if ($user['uid'] == $message['uid']) {